I went for a DIY Candle Making Class…

Hi y’all 👋

Been a minute, it isn’t easy having to juggle daily 9-5, side hustle and creating blog contents in this Lagos, especially with the fuel scarcity and traffic that go on for hours, but i am here to gist you people how I spent my Sunday afternoon.

Remember I mentioned that i was on a self discovery journey and i was learning to do the things i love without waiting for people to do them with me in my last post, so i went on one of my solo dates and this time, i chose to do candle making.

I love scented candles, there’s just this thing that draws me to scented candles I really cannot explain, but I’m guessing it is the way they smell like heaven when lit that does it for me. I have somehow been subconsciously researching how to make scented candles for myself when i came across a tweet about a DIY scented candle class that was holding the next Sunday, and i told myself, ‘ain’t you lucky?’ because I finally get the chance to learn how to make these candles while having fun and sipping cold beer, so I went ahead to register for the class.

For someone who feels lost when alone in a group, i became a bit nervous when i was going for the class, why i was nervous, i didn’t know, could just be the shyness for me. I was told to pick where i wanted to seat and i just sat there, staring at my phone, I honestly didn’t know the class also served as a place for me to meet other people and get to talk and mingle while making candles.

The candle making apparatus

After picking up all the materials i needed for the class, i sat back and continued staring at my phone, the shyness jumped out this time and i just kept to my space without moving. I was lucky to be joined by two beautiful and amazing women who made me feel very comfortable and felt free to have conversations with me, and of course, I wasn’t also trying to be snobbish, so it was easier, i was open and still open to meeting more women and also hang out with them. They were there to catch up on old times and hangout as they had not done that in a while and they were shocked to hear i was there alone, i explained why going out alone was a choice and they felt it was a good idea once in a while.

The class began and we started making our candles. Below is a little mashup of the process. You need to be there to experience it. The class lasted for about three hours, so we had a lot of time to eat, drink and also relate with other people seated on other tables while we waited for our candle wax to cool and set.

Just a mashup

This experience was so much fun for me because it made me go out, i got to meet people i bonded with and i also got to create something different and away from the confines of my room. I also learnt that, you won’t actually get to meet new people if you don’t go out and show up.

The finished product

Materials used:

  • Soy Wax – it helps the environment
  • Wooden wick – burns slower
  • Fragrances – Oud & Citrus
  • Dye colors – Yellow & Yellowish Orange
  • Mason jar

Oh! And i wore a dress that matches my candle 😂

I highly recommend this experience for solo dates, first dates, couple hangouts, bridal showers, team bonding exercises and just normal hangouts among friends as we all know that all we do in Lagos is eat, dance and drink. Try something different today 😉

I am considering pottery for my next solo date though 🤔. What do you think???

See you all on my next post 🤗 😘

MY SELF DISCOVERY JOURNEY

Hello lovelies…

I have been on a journey of self discovery and it hasn’t been as smooth as i expected but it has been rewarding. This journey started about five months ago when i lost almost all confidence in myself, it wasn’t easy at first because I thought to myself ‘what’s the point?’. It took a few friends to point out why I needed it and my life hasn’t been the same ever since.

Why am i on this journey? i am trying to discover myself, the things that i love and the ones that make me happy and so far I am making progress. I am not only concentrating on the good things, I am also trying to find out the things that stress me and the kind of people or behavior i need to stay away from.

One of the things I decided to do on this journey is doing the things that I love alone. I discovered that i don’t get to do them because i always waited to do them with people.

In December 2021, I made a list of things I wanted to do and I was able to follow through with a few of them. Going for a canopy walk was on my list and I initially wanted to go with a friend and have a picnic after the walk, but she backed out last minute. I almost gave up going because I felt it wouldn’t be fun going alone but then i told myself not to let it stop me from going, so, off i went, alone, I was done waiting for people before doing what I wanted for myself.

I visited the Lekki Conservation Center in Lekki, Lagos, they have the longest canopy walk in Africa in addition to some great sights.

The LCC Rainforest
The famous monkeys of LCC

This was the second time i would go on the walk but my first time alone and i was actually scared to go on the walk again, only difference was, i could manage the fear compared to the first time.

The Canopy Walk starting point
The highest point

Because I was alone, the walk was easier and faster, I completed the walk in 20mins.

The end point

In all, it was a refreshing experience because whatever anxiety i was feeling prior to getting dressed and doing the walk disappeared and I felt relieved that i tried doing something by myself for the first time.

Moral of my long story is, doing things by yourself or alone is actually not that bad, sometimes we need to also enjoy the serenity that comes with being by yourself. I have started enjoying my own company and i have no regrets doing that because I achieve a lot when I’m alone.

Finding oneself is also one of the best thing that can happen to anyone because you get to start seeing yourself in a brighter light, you are almost in control of your life when you discover who you really are, at this point, it is easier to shut your inner critic up because you already know yourself. Self discovery in summary boosts self confidence and increases esteem.

I hope you all have enjoyed reading this post 😊. Feel free to also like and drop comments, i will be looking forward to them.

Thank you for keeping up with me and I’ll see you all on my next post 😘

XoXo.

I tried Korean food for the first time…

Hello lovelies,

It has been a very long time, been away for the longest and now I’m trying to go back to writing and posting things on here that’s why I’m writing today. I will try as much as possible not to be away for so long again.

I started watching K-Drama in 2020, during the COVID19 lockdown and I’ve been hooked since then. I started with ‘Boys over flowers’ but i didn’t pick up any interest in their food until I saw ‘Inheritors’ and the first food i wanted to try was TteoKbokki.

TteoKbokki with Ramen and boiled egg

TteoKbokki is made from rice cake and usually paired with boiled eggs and scallions. There are different variations for this dish depending on the recipe but i had mine with ramen, boiled egg and scallions.

I really cannot tell what attracted me to the food or why i wanted to try it so much, it might have been the color, I can’t tell for sure. I started to look for Korean restaurants in Lagos, Nigeria where i could have this delicacy.

I eventually found an Instagram page owned by a Korean woman who lives in Lagos, Nigeria and cooks homemade Korean delicacies for sale, I decided to give it a try.

When the food got delivered, it looked and smelled very good, I couldn’t wait to taste it but alas, it was a sweet meal, it has a sugary taste. It felt odd at first, probably because I hadn’t had such sugary meal in my entire life (cakes and ice cream don’t count lol). I had a few ‘bites’ and left it till later in the day to go again. The second time was actually the charm for me because i ended up liking having the meal more than I expected.

I had it with Kimchi (fermented cabbage) for the perfect experience. I enjoyed every bit of the meal and wouldn’t mind trying it again or any other Korean delicacy.

Kimchi

That’s it about my first Korean meal.

Feel free to let me know if you would love to try some of their meals or if you have tried any of them before, suggestions on what to try next are also welcome.

Please read, like and share.

Until the next post…

Xoxo.

TRAGUS PIERCING: My Experience

Hi y’all, been a whole …months, i tried to catch up but I couldn’t but i have something to share with you all today, that is why I’m here.

I am here to share the little experience I’ve gained in this short while of getting a tragus piercing but before i go to into details, a little introduction.

What is the Tragus?

According to Wikipedia, The tragus is a small pointed eminence of the external ear, situated in front of the concha, and projecting backward over the meatus. It also is the name of hair growing at the entrance of the ear.

In simpler terms, the tragus is that hard cartilage right outside the ear canal.

Imagine trying to pierce that hard part and expecting it to just go smoothly with no complications, that was exactly my thoughts and expectations before getting the piercing.

My first mistake with getting this piercing was not doing enough research, for someone that likes to know other people’s experiences concerning some things, i never asked questions or read up any articles or posts about getting the piercing, i just impulsively decided to get it anyway, what’s the worst that could happen right?

My second mistake was not going to a professional to get the piercing, my excuse was he is cheaper and he will definitely get the job done, so i went to a random guy with a gun and normal gun earrings, i let him shoot the earrings into my tragus and couldn’t wait to start showing it off, it is a very cute piercing that deserves to be shown off

What I didn’t know was, because the cartilage is hard, it requires extra force to get the earring into it and also that the earrings use in piercing guns were too short for a cartilage piercing which would be a problem in a matter of days.

So i got the piercing on a Saturday, the only pain i felt was when the gun was clicked and had the earrings in place, the pain is actually not bad, but out of precaution, i used painkillers right after the piercing just so that the pain would be minimal, so i was good to good for the next few days, i could sleep on that ear for two to three days without pain and i was kind of happy. On Monday, i decided to clean the piercing and twist it because I read somewhere that you could clean the new piercing with saline solution and twist it while it is still wet, i did that for some minutes before stepping out for the day, what I didn’t know was my misery was just around the corner.

I woke up the next morning with a nasty headache but I felt, oh well, i had a few drinks the night before and i was probably hungover so I didn’t pay any attention to the pain on my left ear. Wednesday morning, the pain had become worse and i was in so much pain, it made me very cranky and at this time, the side of my face was swollen alongside my tragus, i got to work and complained to a colleague, she offered to help since she has had a couple of piercings herself and she knew how she took care of the pain. Without taking sanitary measures (third mistake) and by sanitary measures, i mean washing or sanitizing her hands, she started to help me massage my face and ear with ice to at least reduce the swelling, at some point, she noticed the jewelry in the piercing was too tight thereby not letting the tragus swell and causing me so much pain, so i agreed to take it out and by this time, the jewelry was already digging into the skin around the piercing because it was too tight, the jewelry was taken out, the area cleaned and massaged some more, the jewelry was put back in which was painful but without the back this time, used pain killers for the pain which would relieve me for about four hours before going back to status quo. Thursday, i was weak with so much pain, I didn’t have the strength to do things and the pain made me so cranky. As at Friday, my tragus was fully swollen, the jewelry wasn’t showing at the other end and it kept on falling off my ear, also, pus was starting to seep out of the piercing, and then i started to get worried, so i turned to YouTube and Google and all the symptoms pointed towards an infection, my worst fear had happened, what to do next? Treatment, concentrated more on cleaning the piercing with saline solution but I wasn’t seeing any improvement so i decided to ask a doctor for help, it was a very awkward experience.

The doctor prescribed antibiotics and also advised that i used methylated spirit to clean the infected area regularly, from research, using spirit is not advisable because it kills both the good and bad germs but who cares, i just wanted my ear back to normal. Within 24hrs of starting my treatment, i noticed a big change, not only did all the liquid substance(pus) stored in my tragus come out, the swelling and pain reduced, i continued this treatment, coupled with cleaning, hot saline solution compresses, chamomile tea compress and vaseline. My tragus is almost back to it’s normal size and i feel little or no pain.

PS: I gave up on the piercing and took off my jewelry to get the tragus treated but luckily enough for me, i could put back my jewelry after my treatment so I’m back to rocking my tragus piercing.

So from my experience, here’s my advice…

  • If you would get any piercing(s) at all, go to a professional. A professional piercer or piercing outfit will do the piercing with a needle as against the gun and also use the most appropriate jewelry for the piercing, they will give you tips mostly on aftercare once the piercing is done, if and when any issue arises, you can always go back.
  • When you eventually get the piercing done, try not to sleep on the ear like i did, germs from the pillow case can irritate the piercing and can lead to infections.
  • Clean your piercing with clean hands and try as much as possible not to touch it, the only time you should touch your piercing is when cleaning it.
  • In cleaning, you should use saline solutions, some come in cans but i will advise you make it at home because you need the hotness from the boiled version at home.

What you need: Water, Salt, Cotton balls or cotton swabs. Make sure the mixture is not too salty but must have enough salt in it.

  • Saline solution soaks is also helpful in removing crusts around the piercing
    The piercing and the area around it is only supposed to swell for two days, any swelling after two days is an indication that something is wrong and needs to be checked.
    If it ever gets infected, see a doctor immediately, if treatment requires taking out the jewelry, it’s best to do that to get healing fast, you might get lucky like me to have your jewelry back in the piercing.
    Hot chamomile tea compresses and vaseline helps a-lot in the treatment process.

I hope I haven’t discouraged someone from getting a tragus piercing in the future, because it happened to me doesn’t mean it would happen to you. Go to a professional and be very clean about the piercing, you will be good.

Questions and comments are welcome.

Until next time.

Xoxo

DIY FACIAL SCRUB

I’ve been away, i know, very far away, but it’s not my fault or is it?

I lost my blogging mojo you see but i have a reason to blog today, a valid reason and I’m sure a lot of you will be interested in what i have for you today

Recently, my skin has been giving me a little bit of concerns mostly because i have dry skin and my face is ‘scattered’ lol. Never actually took care of my face because i felt being natural meant you just letting your face breathe literally, like just wash and moisturize and you are good to go, not knowing that dirt was clogging my pores making me breakout week in week out.

At first, I thought i was reacting to makeup which I stopped using but nothing changed, so i started asking questions and doing my research. I had to learn the basics to a clear skin which starts with exfoliating, and to do this i needed a scrub at least. My colleagues told me about their scrubs which was working really great for them but i thought the prices at which they bought them was outrageous and I wasn’t ready to pay so much money for a facial/body scrub.

For the love of DIY and clear skin, i jumped on Pinterest and YouTube in search of a recipe for a cheap and effective facial scrub. I found lots of videos and recipes and then I decided to do my own thing.

In my search, i found out that you could use any exfoliant such as sugar (brown and white), salt or coffee grounds and oils such as olive or coconut oil. I settled for white sugar and coconut oil because i could easily get them.

So let’s get to the recipe, my recipe ☺️

Things you need…

1/2 cup of sugar (equivalent to 8 tablespoons), i used Dangote sachet sugar

2 tablespoons of lemon juice

2 tablespoons of coconut oil

1 tablespoon of honey

Bowl to mix

Airtight container to store the finished product

I used these measurements because I didn’t know what to expect and I wouldn’t want to waste resources

What to do…

I just mixed all the ingredients together in a bowl and stored in an airtight container

How to use…

The blogs i read and videos i watched suggested to use the scrub at night 2-3times every week but i decided to use mine in the morning right after taking my bath

I take my bath with black soap, i dry off the part i want to use the scrub on, my face and my neck most of the times, i take a little portion in my palm or fingers and rub it on my face/neck in a circular motion, I usually don’t have the patience to wait for minutes for a full effect before washing it off my body, then i dab the area using a towel so that I don’t clean off the oil that is supposed to sink into my skin, then i moisturize using coconut oil.

Today makes it the fourth time and exactly a week that I’ve been using the facial scrub, i used it thrice in the past week and i can see a huge difference, i have pictures 😁

Before

After

Believe me when i say i hated taking pictures without filter because i felt my camera was just being mean to me, but with this little difference, I’ll gather enough confidence in no time to start taking clear skin selfies.

My skin is not where i want it to be yet but i can see an encouraging progress, and this is to all cheapskates and DIY lovers like me that you can have a clear skin on a budget, it cost me only 200naira to make the scrub and that is because i had coconut oil and honey at home, and here i am with my on-the-path-to-being-clear skin.

You can try this and tell me what you think or even your progress in the comments section.

I will also try to blog often this year so you all will not miss me too much

Until my next post

Peace out!

What to do…

Hello strangers…

Been a while as usual.

So I’m here thinking if I should totally close this blog or continue with it, my reasons being that I’m out of contents to post and I’ve actually lost my blogging ‘mojo’. Also i always have problems getting pictures out especially quality pictures.

I need suggestions and opinions from my fellow bloggers on here on the way to go. All will be appreciated in the comments section.

Thank you 🙏🏽

PS: the picture above was what i wore for the Heineken Lagos Fashion and Design Week 2017.

Xoxo

…it’s been a while

*walks in and clears off cobwebs and cleans off dusts*

Sigh…

It’s been a while guys but I can’t apologize enough for my long silence, i have been super busy with developing myself that I totally forgot about posting on here.

It’s been eight months since i last posted here but i must say you guys didn’t miss much, those eight months haven’t been eventful enough or say encouraging enough to put up a post. But you all missed my 25th birthday, and i have decided to share some pictures with you guys. I clocked 25 on the 11th of March, 2017…yaaay!!

Being 25 has been great but I feel it’s the time when we start making tougher decisions, I mean, most twenty five year olds, in this part of the world, already have jobs, but so far it’s been great.

I didn’t have much planned out for my 25th, just a photoshoot organized by my sister and hangout with friends later in the day to have a couple of drinks. It turned out that my supposed photoshoot was a suprise lunch party organized by my family, I wasn’t expecting it, it was the happiest day of my life. Even my friends slyed me on this one…it was all laughter because I couldn’t cry, i was too happy to cry, unfortunately the photographer didn’t catch my suprised face but my friend and sister got videos of me (they are snapchat videos).

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All the while, i was busy thinking about what i could do for my friends on my birthday but my folks were thinking of how to make my day special. Family…the best thing that can ever happen to anyone.

Anyhoo…

A few pictures from my birthday lunch


I was wearing a red infinity dress made by my Mum and styled by my sister. All chokers worn were made by me as part of my brand AccsbyAnuSvelte. 

The best part of the day was, i was wearing my one million dollar smile all through 😉

In everything we do, we should never underestimate the power of togetherness, most especially the power of Family.

Thank you all for reading this post, i will try as much as possible to post at least once a month.

Until next time

Xoxo.

Chokers by AnuSvelte

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Hello guys,

I’ve been away for a while due to reasons beyond my control, apologies.

While I was away, I was working on a few things and I’ve been able to conclude them.

I just recently launched my line of trendy handmade chokers and they are readily available for order and delivery in Nigeria and they are very affordable.

Here are a few pictures of the few designs I worked on…

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To place your orders (Nigeria only) please call or text 07055777710. You can also send an email to sveltebyanu@gmail.com.

Follow our Instagram and Twitter account: @accsbyanusvelte

Thank you.

Xoxo

…that shift dress

Hey Pumpkins…

Been a while…I know…but I’m hoping you all would understand because it ain’t easy joggling a nine to five with school and blogging. Apologies for the long silence.

I made this shift dress with the assistance of a Fashion designer friend about four weeks back but haven’t had an opportunity to wear it.

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Photo credit: @mizzdeola (Instagram)

The inspiration came from a dress which she wore and I liked so I asked her to assist with the pattern which turned out to be very simple to draft.

Apparently she had been inspired by @micahgianneli ‘s outfit, so it’s safe to say she got inspired to inspire me.

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Photo credit: @micahgianneli (Instagram)

So for the love of comfortability and African prints, here’s my own version of the inspiration

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I’m hoping to inspire someone too and I’ll be expecting to read your thoughts in the comment section.

Thank you.

Outfit deets
Shift dress: Made by me
Shoes: Gifted

Until next post.

Xoxo.